Initial: Frederick
Profession: Psychology Undergraduate
Birthday: days left
Height: 1.76m
Weight: 63kg
Blood Type: A+
Waist size: 29-30 inches
Hobbies: Blogging; Reading; Songs & Movies; Chill out
Talent: Writing; Acting; Singing; Accents
Favourite Food:
Italian Food;
Kimchi Chigae;
Roti Prata
Most Disliked Food: Anything crustacean - due to allergy
Favourite Songs to Sing to: For You (self-composed) & The Promise
Favourite Body Parts: Nose; Jaws
Schools: Pei Chun Public School (1989 - 1995); Chong Boon Secondary School (1996 - 1999); Nanyang Polytechnic (2000 - 2003); Monash University (2006 - )
Current Pursuit: Bachelor of Behavioural Science
Research Interest: Evolutionary Psychology
Other Interests: Evolution; Genetics
Contact:
frederikan@live.co.uk
January 28, 2007
Woohoo! What an evening I just had. Just returned from Alvin's wedding dinner at Rasa Sentosa. For some of you who doesn't know, Alvin's my previous cell group leader and it's funny how time flies and here I am seeing so many of my friends getting married. You know, the feeling is really like.....
EXTRA (if you know what I mean). But well, I'm not in a rush for that. There are still so many things waiting for me to tackle at this point of time.
The food was great. The wedding was romantic. Hahaha... mine's gonna be twice as better as that though. Yea.. and my wife's gotta be the luckiest woman in the world and definitely, I'll oversea that she
IS the luckiest. Yea, and she better be. lolx... love my gf very much. How much more will I not love my wife in future? To ALL my EX-es, I've just got two words for you: -
TOO BAD!!!Anyway, as promised, I will be blogging about the qualities I look for in my future spouse. HAHAHA... someone's feeling stressed now ye.. lolx
Aiya, mine's super practical. Here it comes.
Qualities I look for in my future spouse1.
Character - Traits and personalities are one side of a story. They can be enduring or temporary but nothing beats character. Character is a reflection of a person's belief system, values, principles and mindset. In fact, they're all similar like cousins. Ultimately, I want to be able to live with her harmoniously and to be able to flow with her in both the spiritual and the physical realm. This is one essential ingredient in all of us that will eventually bring us somewhere in life. Everyone out there is looking for someone with good character.
2.
Not Afraid to Express Herself - I don't like to date a robot, much less marry it. Robots are metallic, stiff and cold. I can't imagine having sex with a robot after the wedding dinner as it's very destructive not only to my little brother (metal too stiff to penetrate) but to my entire life! No, and I'm not letting that happen to me! I want a sweet girl who is not afraid to share her problems, her rants and her concerns to me. Sure, I may not be the perfect person to know what's going on sometimes except God Himself who understands it all, but I'm willing to be a good listener to my partner. By expressing our deepest concerns to each other, it can bring the relationship to another level of intimacy. This is something that money cannot buy.
3.
Honesty and Being Upfront - Honesty is very important. No one likes a liar. So this applies to me as well. And she has to be upfront towards me.. especially when the situation calls for it. Sure, I may be dense at first. Ok. I'm dense MOST OF THE TIME. So being indirect or giving silly hints will not get me. The only way to get me is to show obvious hints, or tell me straight in the face, although I would very much prefer the latter. Please don't ever hide anything from me especially when it concerns the both of us.
4.
Forgiving - This is a virtue. And a virtuous woman definitely ought to have this quality. In fact, this quality is a tough one for many these days I noticed. It includes patience and lots of tolerance level. Well, my future wife has got to have lots of patience handling my non-sense. If this quality scares girls away, then they are plain losers lah.. or should I say, people who dare not take up the challenge. It is tough, but nothing is impossible with God. lolx
5.
Having the heart for people - This quality has a very broad range of how it's being perceived. It's always good to be serving others and God at the same time. And by looking at the needs of others, you'll realize how fortunate or blessed you may be. Well, as long as my woman has a heart for people, I'm alright with that.
6.
Romantic and Physical - I like to be hugged/kissed a lot. Because I grew up in an environment that does not appreciate physical touch. I rarely get hugs in my life at all except through my previous girlfriends. So yea.. I like to be hugged and
sayanged (malay word for 'being loved'). Kisses are very important to me. They are a form of added motivation that can positively affect my performance in almost anything! Romance is very important. It is an essence within my relationship or marriage. It will never work out for me without romance.
That's it. Not a lot actually. Some can even say that I've high expectations. No. I only expect this much. There are hundreds of qualities I can list down here but it's not going to work. It would be a waste of time because if that were to happen, no girls would ever fall for me and my self-centredness. lolx So, only 6 qualities. Not much.
As I'm writing, I'm beginning to fall asleep as it's getting late at night. My mind isn't working very well already. Hence, I shall close this entry by leaving a few words to end this day...
Thank you Lord for the day, it was indeed blessed and meaningful.
Thank you dear for loving and caring for me. I love you too.
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